Basking in the Post Shoot Afterglow

I sit here, basking in post-shoot afterglow, all limber and still. I found myself in this shoot. Rediscovered. Reaffirmed. What an amazing journey! What began as a romp to fulfill my exhibitionist nature, instead took me inwards to the very centre of my being. After a...

Sunday Afternoon Fun

I’ve had another opportunity to spend quality time with Ricardo and his camera. He continues to ease my apprehension to participate in his art, continues to appreciate the beauty we each have, continues to show me my own inner and external beauty. Ricardo’s genuine...

Her Neeed Consumed Her

Her need consumed HerHer greed took control She was oh so hungryShe was selfishShe was hypnotized by the sensations.She devoured every tantalizing thrust and pull She took it All so She could release the powerShe released the rawnessShe released the Female hiding in...

The Inner Revealing

It’s not the nakedness I resistIt’s the inner revealingI’ve been naked before.Naked the day I was bornNaked as a child dancing in the rainNaked as a young lover dancing in the fieldHalf naked in photographsNaked in passionate embracesNaked is easier thanRevealing your...

Today was All About Me

Today's shoot was all about me. Every other shoot, I was with others and it was about us. Today I am completely in love with me, with my body, my sensations, my feelings. Today I celebrated my corporeal existence, my happy place in this body, the fullest expression of...

Creative Energy

Creative Energy is the most important and life-affirming energy that there is. We call it Spirit, God, Universal energy or whatever. The truth is that creativity is the most fundamental act. And sex is the most universal creative activity, almost everyone does it, and...

I Received My Book Today

I received my SGP Book today, long awaited I must say, or perhaps it was just my anxiousness to see what was in the pages. My first reaction was raw and visceral and tears poured from my eyes. The tears came from a place deep inside my soul that I did not know...

When the Idea of a Shoot

When the idea of a shoot based around intimacy, vulnerability, and love was presented to me, I was genuinely intrigued. I digested the concept. To visually conceptualize another perspective of what raw connection looked like between two individuals, two individuals I...

Before the Shoot

Before the shoot, I looked forward to be working with Ricardo again. I was especially excited for this newfound theme because in prior shoots I had tried to capture and embody intimacy. To have Ricardo pursue a theme based around vulnerability, intimacy and love...

Having Done a Few Shoots with Ricardo

Having done a few shoots with Ricardo with and without a partner, for Sex Goddess Project books three and four I have learned that each shoot is unique, be it due to the individuals involved, or the intention. The intention for The Intimacy Project is to glory in the...

Meeting with Remarkable Men

Meetings with Remarkable Men. As far back as my memory allows, I have been obsessed with a few things that, in retrospect, may not be typical childhood concerns. God, love, death, sex, art and magic have been my lifelong interests.I pondered these concepts and came to the following conclusions:God is a state of mind, not a proper noun.Love is a verb.Death is just another journey.Sex is a...

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Some More Thoughts on Intimacy

“Intimacy means mutual vulnerability, openness, and sharing. .... a profound connection with oneself and/or another where all boundaries, all concepts, all thoughts, disappear. It is the pure experience of Love. It should be (but is not always) present in close, loving relationships such as lovers, marriages and friendships. It may be possible between strangers but I think those people would...

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A Reaction

Dear Ricardo, I am not new to feeling awe for your work and an eye for the perfect instance of bliss in the most extraordinary way. These sample photographs are not different. You have captured the glimpse of those fleeting moments of connection when someone is united with the essence of love and joy within themselves. I keep looking at the pictures and find myself moved by the stillness in the...

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A Model Speaks about Her Shoot

Intimacy Project Shoot I am a 45 year old indigenous woman who carried shame about her body shape and size and colour. There is no representation of indigenous woman celebrating their bodies. I saw Ricardo’s photos and his quote, “Sex is too important to leave in the hands of pornography,” resonated with me. The images were tasteful and featured many different bodies in the sex act. He had the...

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